The Tree House

I’m currently working on my third full Happy Hypochondriac book. This one will focus on all the anxiety and joy around raising children. I thought I was a hypochondriac before? Psh. Children allowed me to take that “crisis” feeling up to level 10 in no time flat. I was recently outlining all the stories I could tell, and they just kept coming. And coming. Now my son is 19 and my daughter is 16, and you would think maybe some things would calm down and I could stop worrying so much. Again, I say psh. The stories continue to write themselves.

Case in point, my son is currently backpacking around Peru with a fellow college student. I love that he’s doing this and I applaud his sense of independence and adventure. It is what I always hoped my kids would pursue! But I’m not going to lie and say that I’m not worried 24/7 about his safety. I’m having to compartmentalize and kind of force myself to forget what he’s up to so that I can attempt to sleep at night. Then he breaks my peace with sweet texts and updates and comments like, “I’m staying this week in a tree house in an avocado tree.”

Listen, I love that he is keeping me clued in on some of the fun. But then he sends the picture you see here. Is this actually a tree house? Is he just staying on the side of the road? Is any of this structurally sound?

I texted back some love emojis to show my support, but then said, “What happens if it rains?” His quick reply was, “We stay dry.” Well, okay then. Guess I need to think nothing further about what I’m looking at there. It’s all under control. I see a random bucket. That should cover…something.

He has since moved on from the avocado tree, but I’m still concerned. If anyone has good ideas for sleep aids, let me know!

Kathleen SpitzerComment